Q:Hi! I met a guy, we chat, one day had sex and I asked of being sexbuddies afterwars and he agreed. He continued talking to me afterwards, and suddenly we have 9thousand messages on Facebook since February. I'm starting to like him more and more, and I have a crush on him. What should I do?

Anonymous

Tell him. The best way to transition from sexbuddies to something more is to tell him and be honest.- Samantha (spaulson)

Q:i'm in a similar situation as the other anon. i've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months now and he's fingered me but i haven't done anything to him. he says its fine, and has encouraged me to wait for when i'm completely ready and comfortable. he's my first boyfriend and all, and i love him so much for being so understanding!

Anonymous

That’s really great that he is understanding. If you aren’t comfortable having sex, then don’t. Don’t let any type of pressure get to you. It’s completely your choice. - Samantha (spaulson)

Q:Thank you! It's nice to hear that there's someone out there that understands me. And I think we're a pretty good couple also. We have no secrets between each other and we always try to vocalize what's bothering us and whatnot. :) Hopefully I am with him forever! :)

Anonymous

That is so sweet. My boyfriend and I are the exact same way :) I think you two will be fine, don’t worry about what your friends say! Samantha (spaulson)

Q:(the person "giving blueballs" to her bf:P) he tells me that it is difficult, but understand completely why we have to wait. It's just that I hate the my friends keep saying I give him blueballs (which I don't) and that I'm a tease or that I'm such a baby and they make fun about it constantly and it makes me feel like I'm not satisfying my boyfriend enough and that he may get tired of waiting and find someone that will be able to satisfy him. But he always reassures me that I do but yeah XD

Anonymous

As long as you and your boyfriend have communication together and are open about it, you’ll be fine. When he stops talking to you about it, that’s when you worry. But it sounds like you two are a great couple :) - Samantha (spaulson)

Q:My bf and I have been together for over 2 1/2 years. We're both 20 and virgins. I have very strict parents and they do not know about us and we don't get to see each other enough to have sex (I am ready though. And we do everything else but sex). When I start to have sex with him, I want to be able to do it all the time. I do not want it to be once a month or wtv. Is this wrong? My friends keep telling me I give him blueballs and it's not fair to him and that I'm a prude (I'm not though)

Anonymous

I don’t think it’s wrong to want to be intimate with your significant other, especially since you’ve been together for so long! And I don’t find you prude at all, because you WANT to have sex with him, it’s not like you’re intentionally giving him blueballs. - Samantha (spaulson)

Q:So I'm at the age where I should get my period.. and I did... today. I don't know how to tell my mom so can you help me? Thank you ♥ I also wanted to know if I can squirt with a period and if yes, how can I? Pleaseeee tell me!

Anonymous

Its best to just come out with it and tell her, she’s been where you are she gets it. I told my mum on the phone, I asked her if she could get me some pads on the way home from work because I started my period. 

Squirt? I’m not totally sure what you mean. Not like female ejaculation squirting?

- Chloe (gggrohl)

Q:Can I shave my Pubic area with a men's electric shaver..or is that just crazy, cause i usually don't hear of anyone doing that

Anonymous

I don’t know why not? It’s not going to get really close, but it’ll trim it. In fact, I did that when I first started shaving to trim! - Samantha (spaulson)

Q:I feel guilty to change my pad when it hasn't really been soaked with blood to the maximum, but some people say it must be changed every 4 hours for hygiene purposes? So how often should pads be changed?

Anonymous

I think it’s up to you, the boxes say not to exceed 8 hours though. I’m like you, feminine products aren’t cheap, and I HATE wasting them when they’ve barely been used. I say, just don’t exceed 8 hours, because that’s what the boxes say! - Samantha (spaulson)

You should maybe think about think about getting reusable feminine hygiene products if you don’t like wasting them like Samantha and myself. There are more expensive but they last bloody ages and you won’t have to keep buying them every month or so like pads or tampons.

- Chloe (gggrohl)

Q:What are signs that a boyfriend is in it for a long term relationship with a girl?

Anonymous

Welllllllllllllllllll, I should be able to answer this since my boyfriend is in it for the long term, but I don’t really know. People say that if a guy talks about his future with his girl, then he’s in it for the long run, but sometimes, I think guys do that just so the girl thinks that. I think the way I could tell was when my boyfriend started planning things for us to do together that were months out, like going to his friend’s wedding that is in September together. When a guy plans something and wants you to be involved and it’s far away, that’s a good sign. - Samantha (spaulson)

Q:The guy I'm seeing has backed off and just want's to be friends because he's been told by doctors he's not allowed a relationship. I know he has depression and anxiety and paranoia but I can't understand why he's been told not to have a relationship :( can doctors tell you those kinda things? now I'm really sad. While we where together he always used to say he didn't want to get attached and now he's saying he's a little attached and that's why he keeps talking to me n ahhh he's so confusing :(

Anonymous

Yes they can suggest it If not being in a relationship would be better for his well being. He obviously going through a lot of really heavy emotional stuff. I think that you should be the one to back off. 

- Chloe (gggrohl)

Q:I started levlen ED for the second time (I had a two month break as of choice) I started Last Monday on the red pills when I wasn't on my period and didn't end up gettng it. I'm on the active pills now and I just today got my period :/ is this normal? will it just take a month for my body to regulate to this?

Anonymous

I’m not sure, the pill I am on is different to the normal combination pills.

Any admins or followers that are on this?

- Chloe (gggrohl)

Q:When giving a guy oral, is it different for him if he is uncircumcised rather than circumcised? Any tips on giving a really good blow job?

Anonymous

No there is no difference. For blowjob tips please go here :)

- Chloe (gggrohl)

Q:All of you live in the U.K or??

Anonymous

No, I think there are at least 4 that live in the UK if I’m not mistaken. Including me.

- Chloe (gggrohl)

Nope, I live in the USA! :) - Samantha (spaulson)

I live in the states as well! -Genai (obscuredly)

I’m in New York

- Lizzy (xoxolizzyt)

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