Q:If also like to point out that he never finished inside of me! So am I paranoid or is there still a possibility?
What question does this go to? It gets very confusing when you don’t remind us. We get a lot of questions and a lot of pregnancy questions.
Q:I've been on my period for nine days and I've been fingered for the first time before it of coursed is that normal?
Is what normal? Being fingered, yes. Being on your period, yes. Something else?
Q:Thank you for your help! :)
You’re welcome, thank you all for sending questions and trusting us : )
Q:I've been dating my girlfriend for 9 months and we've never had sex. So I was thinking that we should finally do it for our 1 year Ani. But idk how to bring it up or talk to her about it. I'm a girl btw
Just talk to her about it. With sex it is really important to obtain very clear consent, so just be direct.
"I am really having fun with you when we are in bed together, what do you think about introducing (however you are planning to have sex)" and then just chat about it.
Q:I have never smoked cigarettes excessively like I am doing now. I do not believe I am pregnant at all, but my period is late. Could smoking affect it? I am just nervous and I would like to get my period over with haha.
I honestly have no idea. I would just take a test and see if you are pregnant or not.
Q:i checkede your pregnancy scare guide and im still freaking out. i properly used a condom(it was the first time i had sex) and my period is 3 days late but i can be irregular. am i freaking out for no reason?
Having sex for the first time can actually mess with your period, which is a really strange thing.
BUT since you are already late just go ahead and pick up a test and take it, it will be accurate if your period was due.
Also, you should decide what other form of birth control you want to be on! Two methods is the best for preventing unplanned pregnancies.
Q:Spotting is annoying. .. I read that it has something to do with my utrine hardening or something (correct me if I'm wrong) so I'm kinda worried... is it a medical condition and if it's dangerous? Thank you.
No it is not dangerous.
Q:Hi, I'm the one asking about spotting. But i have never been on birth control... what do you mean by switching brands?
I totally mis-read it. I thought you said you were on birth control.
Birth control can help correct spotting, so just tell your doctor that you are having issues with spotting and they should put you on one : )
Q:Is it normal to have spotting when I've never been on birth control? I spot for like 4 days before my period actually starts. It's pink streaks on day 1 then blood streaks and then bleeding before my period starts..
Yes, spotting is a normal occurrence. Just switch brands and it should clear up.
Q:Burns to pee after having intercourse. Is that normal ?
Not really, it is a sign of infection. It could be a UTI, STI, or something else. you should go to your doctor.
Q:my boyfriend is 19 and im 17. we want to go to a hotel so we can have some alone time without interruptions. i know you have to be 18 to book a hotel room but am i still allowed to be with my boyfriend for the night if im underage? its for our six months and we want to spend our first night together but im worried we wont be able too because of my age.
You shouldn’t have any problem walking in. If you are really concerned about it just walk in on a side entrance with him so the front desk doesn’t even see you.
Q:Hi :) I am on my 4th month of birth control and I was wondering if it was okay that there are more of those little clot like things than there usually are and they look a little bigger than they have before. (This is of course just on my placebo week and everything else is totally normal) Should I be concerned?
Nope, clots are totally normal.
Q:how can I loose a bit of weight ? literally I have tried everything and I can't loose anymore :/ im on the pill and my friend told me it's harder to loose weight if I'm on it?
There isn’t any secret to it. It is diet and exercise. Different things work for everyone, so just experiment with what you like to eat and what makes you feel good. And decide how you want to move your body some people love cardio while other people hate it, some swear by heavy lifting, etc.
And no. Birth control does not effect your weight or make it harder to lose weight.
Q:Last month I found my roomate hanging, I cut the rope and took her to the hospital she is now going to therapy but since that happened I think i havent been the same, she hates me or thats what she told me in the hospital and the times i called her, she hates me because i save her, and i don't know how to feel about that, wasn't i supposed to help her? im feeling so sad and low lately, please tell me i did the right thing
You absolutely did the right thing and hopefully when she gets better she’ll thank you for it.
Also it might be good for you to talk to someone, that is such a traumatic thing to deal with and it’s okay to ask for help too.
- Chloe (gggrohl)
Q:Is it normal to have slight cramps but no actual bleeding when on birth control? I have been taking it for about 5 months now
Do you mean on your placebo week? If you aren’t bleeding at all during your placebo week, then you need to go to the doctor.
If you are just having cramping throughout your cycle it could be caused by something else (having spasms in your lower intestines cause the same feelings as menstrual cramps, see if you have underlying intolerances/allergies). I would go and see your doctor if that is the case as well.
There are a hundred different birth control brands so switching is not a big deal.