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Anonymous: Private reply! Oh okay that's sounds good then.. she is on the pill so would ypu recommend I still pull out as it gets messy pulling out?! Also what do you find is the best way to get an orgasm position wise?

I did reply privately and I can’t answer in private when you are on anon :/

It depends on who is stimulating who.. 
if you are on top then she can stimulate herself … 

If she’s on the pill then you have no problems :) 

xoxo 

Anonymous: how do u finger yourself and orgasm

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/masturbationwomen.htm

read :) 

xoxo

Anonymous: Hey, so I really need some advice. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and a half, and he's amazing. He's sweet, smart, and he knows exactly how to make me smile! But, he hasn't kissed me yet. Like not even on the cheek or anything. He asked me if I wanted him to and I told him of course, but he said that he's "sorting things out" then changed the subject. Help? I don't even understand,gah

Maybe you should kiss him. He might be nervous about it and doesn’t know what to do now that it’s taken so long… If things don’t change then you should ask him what’s going on? Are you in a friendship of a relationship? 

xoxo 

Anonymous: So I started dating this guy over a month ago. He's great, caring, kind, funny, but he's not as outgoing & random as me. I dated him b/c my ex of over a yr had moved on & I felt it was time to do the same. But now, my ex broke up w/ his GF b/c he can't get over me. We had problems in our past, but he's just as outgoing & crazy as me & we were friends for a long time before dating. I miss him, but he wants to get bck 2gether & I'm afraid we won't work out again if I leave my bf. What should I do?

The fact that you are thinking of leaving your current bf for your ex should be enough of an answer… 
You clearly still have feelings for your ex bf and got into the one you are in for the wrong reasons…
I think you r current bf deserves to know the truth and you need to admit your feelings for your ex to yourself…
Do what you think will be best for you but be sure about it..  

Anonymous: i try fingering myself so many times but i can never orgasm or i get dry pretty fast. what else can i do? i tried the shower head too but that was no use. i play with my clit but it's not working. i'm a virgin too so penetration feels too tight and i get scared trying to stick my whole finger in. i can only stick about 1/2 or a bit more of my middle finger.

Read the following, it might help :0 

xoxox 

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/masturbationwomen.htm

Anonymous: is normal period before coming a brown liquid for about 2 days?

It comes in many forms, usually at the end of the cycle it tends to be a little darker… if you are concerned then see your doctor :0 

xoxo 

Anonymous: I've been dating my boyfriend for around 9 months, and we had sex for the first time around 3 months ago but we havnt since, I dont realy want to ask if I was just awful at it, because it was my first time so i was far from confident, but Is it wierd its happend once and never again x

You have to talk to him. I couldn’t possibly know what he may be thinking, all I can do is assume… The best way to be sure is to talk to him about it and see what the reason is so that you can resolve the issue :) 

xoxo 

Anonymous: my bf and i love each other very much. and we have sex a lot not every night but enough. we stopped having sex 2 months ago and i really miss it and i know he does to he just refuses to make love. what should i do or say to get him to break down?

Ask him why he’s not having sex with you? do you know the reason? 

find out and help him through it. Be understanding and and help him break the shell. If you persist a lot, it could push him away further… 

Anonymous: My (ex) girlfriend and I had been dating for almost 2 years before she broke up with me a little over a month ago. I made her mother angry and she blamed the breakup on the stress that it put on our relationship, but after I fixed things with her mom (and I mean, I truly did fix them) she was basically forced to tell me that she just doesn't want a relationship right now. She says she still not only loves me, but is also in-love with me but just wants to get her life together... what do I do?

Give her some time… If she loves you and wants to be with you then she will come back to you when she is ready… Sometimes people need to be alone to be able to make changes in their lives.. 
If she needs alone time to get things in order for herself, then give her the time… 
She will come back to you after she feels ike she can handle a relationship :)

xoxo  

Anonymous: My boyfriend and I are planning to have sex for the first time. We're so worried about pregnancy, but our only birth control is condoms. Is there anyway we can improve the effectiveness of them? Should he pull out before he comes? Xxxx

You can improve it by taking the bill or having a coil placed…. 
If you are too young for that stuff then yeas get him to pull out :)

xoxo