Q:On Friday, this boy that I'm sort of in a very complicated relationship with (we're currently going through a rough patch) told me in a drunken state that he thinks he has bipolar. I've not really spoken to him properly since but as you can imagine it's been on my mind so much. I am really, really worried but also I'm terrified that he's lying and that he's completely fine. What do I do?
Tell him “Hey, I know you have been feeling kinda crumby lately and think you may have a mental illness, I just want you to know that I support you and care about you a lot. I am wondering what you want me to do to help you get help or to otherwise support you.”
It is really important to get help with mental illnesses, so encourage him to talk to his parents and seek treatment. Try not to be sucked into becoming his therapist/outlet. It is not healthy or happy for either of you. This does not mean that you are not there for him and supportive.
Q:I think you're right about reordering the events, I'm just not used to it because he has always been put first especially when it comes to finishing :/ should I use the vibrator on myself first (with help from him) and then we have sex? it feels more sensitive (in a good way) when I start off with the vibrator first. if I use it after having sex with him, it feels more numb down there and the vibrator doesn't feel good. in fact it barely feels like anything. any idea why?
I don’t know why it’s happening. That’s why you should go to a doctor and ask them : )
Yeah use the vibrator! And hands/fingers! And tongues! Whatever you need/want to have used on you go for it : )
Q:I was wondering if getting wet really fast just by the thought of my guy touching me or the way hes touched me is part of being new to sex or does it happen to people already experienced people too?
Yes! When vaginas get aroused they lubricate themselves, so totally normal, totally okay.
Q:So lately when my boyfriend and I have sex, it's been hurting a lot. It doesn't hurt when he first puts it in but after a bit it starts hurting so badly that I have to tell him to stop. It's not like the first time having sex kind of hurt, it's more like sore like scratching a scab that hasn't healed completely. Any ideas why it might hurt so bad?
No, but you need to stop having sex and make an appointment with your doctor.
This sounds fairly serious and someone will need to take a peek and see what’s going on.
Q:Me and my two months boyfriend have been having so much fun in bed (all with clothes on) how can i take the next step (sex) ? i don't want him to think that i am an easy girl but i think it's time and we both want to do it but we don't admit it. Can you help me please?
Just tell him when you are in the middle of making out just tell him how much you want to have sex with him. See what he says. If he responds enthusiastically then great. Don’t go into having sex right then, you will need to chat more about protection, etc.
Q:How do I play hard to get?
You don’t. One thing you realize the older you get is that “playing games” is pointless. If you want to talk to someone, then do it.
Q:Hello so today was the first time my boyfriend ejaculated in me in the heat of the moment. We used condoms and we tested it out and it was worn correctly and he pulled it out correctly. Afterwards we had sex again but again with condoms used correctly but no ejaculation. I know condoms are used so people can ejaculate in them but because we have always been pulling out I'm getting scared. Is there a chance if pregnancy
There is always a chance but condoms are very effective when used correctly so you don’t need to worry.
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Q:My boyfriend cummed on my butt cheek but he wiped it after. Is this a risk for pregnancy
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Q:How many nerve endings are in nipples?
Google says 2-19
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Q:I've been on and off with this one guy for a few years and lately it seems like things were going well. However, after we have sex he'll never talk to me unless I talk to him first. The only time we hang out is if I approach him first and it's during my break between classes. At this point I don't know if i'm just turning into a friends with benefits to him or if our friendship/relationship are important to him cause he makes time for others. Should I try to talk to him or just leave him?
I would talk to him, and see what he has to say. Go into the conversation with things that are non-negotiable and things that are negotiable, and see how it goes.
If things are good then go ahead and continue your relationship, if not then move on!
Q:my boyfriend jokingly suggested we have a threesome but now it's turned into a legit proposition. we both wanted two girls and a guy (me, him, and some girl-most likely a friend) but now he thinks it's weird that i would hook up with my friends. i wouldn't want to go further than 2nd base with a girl so i don't think i'm bi. he's more worried that i WANT to hook up with someone besides him. but i'm just curious as to what it'd be like with a girl and girls are pretty. what should i tell him?
Explain what you said to us, and tell him just like with other guys you aren’t going to hook up with other girls. Explain how you aren’t going to cheat and then don’t bring it up anymore.
Q:My boyfriend's birthday is really soon and I'm having trouble deciding what to do. So for valentines day I went all out and got him really cool gifts but he didn't get me anything and said he'd make it up, well he never did and probably won't and now it's his birthday & I feel like giving him a gift is going to be a little awkward and I don't want him to feel bad that I keep getting him gifts, but at the same time I can't not get him something! What would you guys do?
Ask him if he wants you to get him something, if yes get him a small little something, if no don’t get him anything.
Q:How do you tell a guy you want to date or you don't want them to be in your life. Is that to weird to say straight up? He's hurt me so much and I want him to be mine or I don't want him in my life! Please answer as fast as you can! Thank you <3
No, I think just being blunt and honest is the best way. That way there are no miscommunications.
Q:If I'm prone to getting sores on my lips and i kiss someone with an outbreak, will I likely get an outbreak soon after aswell? or does that not affect me since I already get them
No, unless it is open (aka oozing) it shouldn’t increase your chances of getting them. Put if you are prone to them, I would avoid kissing someone with them.
I recommend tea tree oil and l-lysine for keeping them away.